Following Up After a Networking Event
The event is where you meet people, but the follow-up is where the relationship actually begins. Most people forget to follow up, which means if you do it well, you're already in the top 10%.
The 24-Hour Rule
Aim to send your follow-up within 24 to 48 hours. Any sooner and you might get lost in the post-event noise; any later and the memory of your conversation starts to fade.
The Anatomy of a Great Follow-Up
1. The Subject Line
Keep it simple and contextual.
- Great meeting you at [Event Name]
- Follow up from [Event Name] / [Your Name]
2. The Anchor
Remind them of a specific thing you talked about.
- "I really enjoyed our chat about the future of RAG in enterprise AI."
- "Thanks for the tip about that new Rust framework; I'm checking it out today."
3. The Value (Optional)
If you mentioned an article, a tool, or a person, include it.
- "As promised, here is the link to that paper on distributed systems we discussed."
4. The Call to Action (CTA)
Propose a clear next step.
- "I'd love to continue the conversation. Would you be open to a 15-minute virtual coffee next week?"
- "I'll send over a LinkedIn request now-would love to stay in touch!"
Example Follow-Up Email
Subject: Great meeting you at the SF Tech Mixer / [Your Name]
Hi Mark,
It was great meeting you at the mixer last night. I really enjoyed our conversation about the challenges of migrating to a microservices architecture-it's rare to find someone who has actually dealt with the 'distributed monolith' problem!
I'd love to hear more about how your team handled the database migration. Would you be open to a 20-minute Zoom call sometime next week? If not, no worries-I'd love to stay connected on LinkedIn regardless.
Best, [Your Name]
Key Vocabulary for Following Up
- "Circle back": To follow up on a previous conversation.
- "Touch base": To make contact briefly.
- "Low friction": Easy to do; requiring little effort.
- "Top of mind": Something that is being thought about currently.
Summary
A follow-up is a bridge from a "chance encounter" to a "professional relationship." By being prompt, specific, and low-pressure, you turn a brief chat into a valuable connection.